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Sex – where would we be without it? Well, we wouldn’t exist, for a start, but there’s so much more to it than that. It’s a way to connect, it’s good exercise, it can help us to feel pleasure and happiness, and… well, it’s just damn fun!
Most people have sexual urges they want fulfilled, and sometimes those urges can be a little kinkier than others. But how can you meet like-minded people who share your sexual appetites? It’s hardly appropriate to just walk up to a colleague or someone in a bar and ask them whether they’re into BDSM or if they’d like to hook up with you on the weekend. Thankfully, there are online options to help.
Hookup Websites (Sex Dating Sites or Adult Dating Websites, as they’re also known) offer members a wide range of communication tools to help you find erotic encounters, flirtations and hook-ups. And they’re not as niche or underground as you might expect. In fact, these sites have millions and millions of horny members who want to titillate, all with sex on their minds.
So, whether you’re into bondage, spanking, big asses or little breasts, whether you’re straight, gay or something else entirely, whether you want to hook-up tonight or watch hot women on camera, Adult Dating Websites have plenty on offer.
In this buying guide, we’re going to give you a few hints and tips, particularly regarding what to look out for and what to avoid on Adult Dating Websites. We’ve explored the internet for some of the best sex sites around, and have plenty of advice for you. We’ve also reviewed some of the best hook-up sites around, so we’ll provide a little information on our criteria so you can better understand where we’re coming from. So sit back, relax, and get ready to enjoy some adult action…
Our reviews
We’ve used and reviewed more than 100 adult dating sites over the years, so we know what works. Our reviews provide you with the factual details (such as the costs of joining), a breakdown of each site’s key features (their chat options, video and photo choices and more), and a written overview we call the “Editor’s Verdict”.
We compare and contrast each site to give you a sense of which ones are better, as well as highlighting whether the site has a particular focus. For example, if you’re looking for sites which specialize in BDSM or MILF dating, you’ll soon discover them through reading our reviews.
We also provide a star rating to give you a quick visual assessment for each website. Adult Dating Websites are assessed on several important common factors, and we’ll break each of those down for you in this buying guide, right now…
Chances of Getting a Date
Let’s face it, if you’re on a dating website you’re probably going to want to get a date. Success can come in many forms on Adult Dating Websites, though. Some people may just want an online date, where they can chat to hot single people using their webcam. Others may want to hook up in the flesh, meeting for erotic encounters or sex. Some members may want a more committed relationship with a member who shares their sexual interests, whilst others want to be involved in fetish communities or sex swapping.
We consider all of these factors, although we place slightly more importance on “chances of meeting up” because online-only dates aren’t always the end-goal for a lot of people. If you’re unsure whether a site is useful for online-only dates or helping you to meet offline, check out the editor’s verdict because this is where you’ll find out how successful you might be using a particular website.
Our star rating for “Chances of Getting a Date” is also affected by how legitimate we feel the profiles are. Sometimes we are sent horny messages before we’ve even finished our profile page, and this seems somewhat suspicious to us. There may be bots or fake accounts who try to tempt you to give them credits or money to check out their profile, or people who attempt to lure you to another site. We advise caution in these cases.
Finally, if you want to meet people then becoming part of an online sexually-interested community can be a great benefit. Some sites offer groups and meet-ups, party planning tools and maps to help you stay in touch with members. These can be really useful for improving your chances of getting a date, if you’re interested in them.
Chat features
It’s unlikely you’ll get a date if you can’t actually talk to members. Have a look around a site and consider the various options you have for talking to members. We value webcam chat features, especially in this category, because they allow you to see and hear members when you talk to this. As you can imagine, this can be especially useful on sites where sex is the main selling point, and physical attraction can matter.
Don’t forget text chatting, though. Sending and receiving private messages can be important, particularly if you don’t have a lot of time to spend chatting and you just want to log in to check your messages. Instant messenger options are also quite common, but there may be other chat options to explore. Are there forums, blogs, erotic stories to check out? Can you post on a member’s wall, or enter group chats? Can you arrange events and share them with the community? It all depends on what you want from your service, but we think that the more chat options there are, the better (if they’re done well).
Quality / Size of Members’ Photos
Online dating is something of a peculiar beast, because you have to give a good impression quite quickly. Otherwise, members might not look at your profile, and you may not get much communication. The size and quality of your photos can, therefore, matter quite a lot. Having well-lit, well-shot photos which show your best features and attributes is important. When we explore Adult Dating Websites, we’re looking for high quality photo options, including the ability to create albums, store your favorite photos and upload HD if you want to. We also think it’s great if members can upload lots of pictures, so you can see them from all angles to get a better idea of how they look. Some sites may severely limit your upload and download capabilities, which can be a barrier to dating.
We also consider other media options, such as whether you can watch adult videos, upload welcome videos and more. A lot of sites will offer access to adult content in this way, some with professionally-shot photos and videos, some which include content from models.
Search options
With millions of members, finding a date on an Adult Dating Website is a bit of a complex topic. Sure, there are a lot of options, but how do you find the people who suit your needs? Well, you need to search for them, and there are several ways that dating sites allow you to do this.
The most common way to find members is to perform a search which is based on your particular sexual interests and preferred physical qualities. If you want to find brunettes who live within 5 miles of you, for example, you can usually do this. We prefer sites with lots of options in their search engine, as this means you can really focus in on the specific kinds of people you’re looking for.
You might also be able to play matching games, the results of which will suit you to other members. From there, you can chat and get to know each other. Or perhaps you just want to browse the site’s “new” members, or its “hottest” members. This is often available.
Some of our highest ratings go to websites which allow you to locate members based on their sexual interests. Sites with community options, which provide tools for finding like-minded people, are probably going to yield better results. So, if you’re serious about hooking up, you’ll want to use a site which has great search options.
Ease of Use / Support
Adult Dating Sites often have dozens of features, including hundreds of pages of content. Navigating these sites could be a tricky task if they’re not well designed. We look for sites which are intuitive to use, and which avoid lots of pop-ups and advertisements. Why? Well, pop-ups can become really irritating after a while, and sometimes you can be redirected to pages you have no interest in.
We also test many features, including chat tools. If these don’t work efficiently then they will inhibit your ability to talk to members and arrange dates. This could be a disaster for your sex life!
Finally, if something goes wrong then you need to know the site’s team is there to support you. We value attentive service, with unobtrusive staff who will solve problems quickly and easily. Some sites may even offer you a refund or extra membership time if you don’t feel you’ve been successful.
Extra Features
We’ve already mentioned some of the extra features that sex sites and hook-up websites can offer. Sexy games, adult videos, links to porn hubs and other elements can enhance your overall experience. Community features in particular can be extremely helpful in helping you to find sexy singles, or couples and groups, to hook-up with. We recommend reading through the lists of features we provide in each review, and then reading the editor’s verdict to find out how each of these features might help you in your pursuit for sex.
More features can be good, but it’s not ideal if they don’t function very well. That’s why we’ve tried them out, to make sure you’re getting the best experience possible. Okay, we haven’t played every game or clicked on every video option, but providing you with more high quality content and options can only be a good thing.
Value for Money
Your hard-earned money is valuable. We compare and contrast each sex dating site to work out whether its fees are in-line with other websites, whether they’re charging too much or whether you’re getting a total bargain. It’s not simply a case of how many dollars you pay in total, but whether we feel those dollars are being well spent.
For example, if a site is $10 per month, but it malfunctions and you’re constantly getting spam, and your chances of landing a date are pretty terrible… well, that site offers poor value for money, even though it’s cheap. Comparatively, if a hook-up site provides great support, allows you to talk to loads of real members who want to meet up for sex, provides great photo and video options and more, but it charges $20 per month… well, we think that’s a much better place to spend your money.
It’s also worth watching out for added extras which may not initially be apparent. Some sites may charge fees (or ask for credits) to watch certain videos, or to access a member’s profile. That’s not to say it’s bad value for money, but it’s worth bearing in mind before you pay for their services.
Overall Rating
As you’ve probably realised, the overall rating is our calculation based on the previous seven star ratings. It gives you a sense of how the site performs when compared with its peers, and our general feeling towards its aptitude.
A note on privacy and your safety
Dating sites (adult sites included) often ask for personal information. Whilst your data will be kept within the confines of the site, anyone can join these websites. That means your personal information could be viewed by anyone. We don’t think you need to be worried, but it’s wise to be a little cautious about how much information you include. Certainly, don’t include your home address, phone number or email address – the dating website should be the primary way that any member can contact you.
If you ever feel threatened, unsafe or bullied on an Adult Dating Site, we recommend contacting their support team for help.
The Bottom Line
Adult Dating Websites (or Sex Dating Websites, or Hook-up Websites) can offer incredible opportunities for sexually-minded people online. You can meet all sorts of attractive singles, couples and groups on the internet, enjoying their flirtations and erotic encounters. You can even chat to sexually-interested, like-minded people in your area if you look in the right places. With so many options, and millions of members to choose from, you’ve a whole sea of sexual opportunities to explore, so why not get started? Good luck!